Bad Touch?

Oct. 8th, 2018 01:16 am
sitonmyinterface: (Default)
Massaged a 16yo, and it was her very first massage. She came in with her mother who saw another therapist in a separate room. In prone, she had the sheet and blanket pulled up around her shoulders and pinned under her. She wanted to remain draped in all areas. As if that wasn't enough of a curve ball, she was completely ticklish wherever I touched her regardless of pressure. But, she wasn't laughing, she was squirming and writhing around on the table, bringing her legs up off the bolster, and twisted in all directions. I felt like I was torturing the poor girl. I was in open communication with her the whole time and she insisted it was okay, but I felt like I was giving a non-consentual massage! I literally had to get a beer after work, and I don't drink beer. Any fellow therapists with a similar story?

sitonmyinterface: (Alice)
Been at my massage gig almost 5 months now and I'm finally settling in and getting into my groove.

Had a client yesterday that started asking excessive questions about children:
Do you have any children? Do you want them? Do you plan on having children? Have you tried to have children?
I asked him if he has kids and he said he had a little one and then he STFU and went to sleep. Surely not the weirdest thing that could happen, but...

I have a new client that has been booking me twice a week every week for the past 3 weeks. She's also a great tipper, so that's a blessing. She's got a really chill vibe and doesn't chit-chat during her massage, which I prefer.

One of my old regulars saw that I was back and started requesting with me again. Another one from before also still comes, but now I have her husband booking with me. The wife stiffed me on a tip when she found out I was leaving and it would be her last massage with me. She even said I had better let her know if I come back. Nopes. It was only by chance her husband's regular massage therapist left and ended up getting booked with me. I don't get stiffed but it's sad for a 90 minute. I'll leave it at that.

sitonmyinterface: (Alice)
I had a client that booked with me and I had never massaged her before. When we got in the room she said that she'd been coming for years and saw me walking around one day and "liked my vibe" so she requested me. How cool is that? She had a great energy about her and she pre-booked with me again, so that's cool.

I made my first client cry. Luckily it was a good cry and not something bad! She came in all crumpled because she was having the worst headache. After my massage, in which I focused on some points that relieve headaches, she came out and I told her I hope her headache feels better. She looked at me and she's like "This headache has been here for days and this is the first time I've felt so good. I wish I could hug you!" Then she started crying and I was like AWWWWWWWWWWWIES and hugged her. That was somethin' else.

Sometimes certain clients are such a pleasure and/or genuinely helped by what I do, and that's what makes me love it. It's hard not to notice other therapists that don't seem into what they're doing at all, so why do it? I'm starting to build regular clientele so I'll be steady freddy before I know it. Not to mention season is coming... I'm glad giving massages counts as going to the gym according to me!

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Jun. 30th, 2018 04:01 pm
sitonmyinterface: (Bathory)
Got a massage after about a year and bitch bruised up my legs, holy shit. I also discovered that if the pressure is too intense, I giggle. Anyway, I wanted to experience this therapist but my IT band area looks like someone wacked me with a cane. No bueno.

My sister in law is pregnant, in her second trimester. It will be exciting to have a baby in the family :) I don't think I'll be doing the motherhood thing. I think I'm too old and I wouldnt be able to handle it. With my anxiety and not being able to take meds or smoke crack. No thanks... jk.

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